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How to get my boyfriend to propose we get married? We have been together 4 years, but we have had some up’s and down’s…. I really want to go a step further now and to have something to look forward to….. Any tricks to get him to propose soon??
If you’re actually ready to get married then you would act like a mature adult and have a discussion about marriage and your relationship. If you can’t talk to him about marriage then you’re not ready to get married.
How about talking to him about it? Instead of being sneaky and manipulative and tricking him. Because, yeah, every guy wants to marry a liar. Way to be classy.
The problem with “getting” your man to propose to you is that you will be wondering for the rest of your married life if he proposed because he was ready and wanted to (the ideal situation) or because you nagged or tricked him in to it. (not a good way to start what is supposed to be a lifelong commitiment). Don’t be sneaky about it, just ask him if he sees marriage with you at some point in the future and if the answer is no, find somebody who will be proud to call you wife.
Well you cant make him do something if he doesn’t want to. Why don’t you talk to him. OR dear its 2009 you propose! Sorry but you cant trick him into proposing… that’s not even right.
how can i get him to propose? my bf and i have been together for over 2 years, but were good friends 4 years before we got together. I’m 20 and he’ll be 21 next month. We were engaged for about a month last year, but had to break it off because he didn’t want to tell anyone in fear of his mom finding out (she said that if he waited until last christmas that he can have the stone from a ring she has) I’ve tried proposing to him, but he always thinks i’m joking.
WoW… This is a tuffy. You are obviously in a rush. I have to suggest that you let it be and have the cards fall where they may. (so to speak) Somehow, somewhere, there is a digging desire for you to be married. Perhaps it is to show your family? Maybe you feel that time is running out? It is possible that you want the “fairy tale” with the white picket fence? I hate to say it, but getting married is not going to solve any problems, except financially or religiously. Marriage is suppose to be *forever*. There will be *plenty* of time for all that. You might just want to count your blessings and enjoy the fact that you have a “good man”. Us good men are hard to find, from what I’m to understand. Perhaps you could do one of those romantic things where he find the ring in a wine glass. There could be several ways to get it going faster, but I think you should just/only be a bit more patient. Indeed. Good luck!
how should i propose to him? I’ve always told him I don’t want to marry. Now I want to ask him. Should I get a ring for him? Any other ladies out there proposed before?
My guy said that he would be really upset with me if I proposed to him. I would talk to him about it. Let him know that you’re ideas on marriage have changed. Give him the chance to propose to you.
Honestly…I wouldn’t do it. Proposing to guy is like having him walk down the aisle while you wait at the alter. I know many people throw out traditions in today’s “modern” world but I still wouldn’t do it. If you’ve changed your mind about getting married, talk to him about it first or drop a hint that you wouldn’t mind have something sparkly to wear on your ring finger. Proposing to my wife was and still is one of the greatest moments of my life and I would hate to have that moment taken away. Also…his buddies will NEVER let him live it down ;o)
just say will you marry me no ring needed
I agree w/ A.J. Women don’t propose. It screws with the innate male wiring that they are supposed to be the hunters in this game. When guys feel emasculated, they lash out emotionally, but of course, I’m generalizing. Your guy might love for you to propose to him. Weird, though.
just tell him how you feel and ask the question-if he accepts, you can go ring shopping together and make it fun
Sure, propose!! A ring?? I don’t think he’ll want something like that, maybe a key ring with a pretty key on it….Tell him its the key to your heart, and its all his!!